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Friday, June 21, 2013

Goodbye Grandpa


This past weekend I said goodbye to my grandpa. Unlike any other times I’ve experienced a death of a loved one, this time I was accompanied in my thoughts (as Domincans say) by an entire orphanage of children, teenagers and adults. Although thousand of miles away from home when I received the news, I felt as if I was surrounded by family and more supported than ever.

I was lucky enough to be able to go home to Minnesota for a couple days to attend the events. When I look at the people in the surrounding villages who don’t even have the resources to transport themselves 5 miles to town, I realize how blessed I am to be able to be mobile especially in situations like this…not just with funds, but also in the fact that I have a legal identity that permits me to travel.

I left the orphanage on Saturday with many well wishes from the girls, tias and other volunteers plus a crew that offered to take me to the airport despite the ridiculously early hour. After spending the day flying, I was able to go be with family and slip back into “life as I know it.”

It felt so good to be surrounded by family for a couple days, to get to say a real goodbye to my grandpa and to hear the stories of his last couple weeks alive. Every time I reflect upon it, I find myself so very thankful for everything I have…more than anything, my family.

I also found myself reflecting on a couple others things. While the last funeral I was at consisted of a simple wooden box for a casket with the wake taking place in the home of the man on the day of his death, this time I was faced with the contrast of an elegant metal casket with cushion linings, a beautiful funeral home, and many people giving money, food and flowers to the affected family. While the last funeral consisted of a man who was too young to die and most certainly wouldn’t have died with proper medical care, this death consisted of a man who received the best medical care that exists and for that reason was able to live until age 84. The thing that ties these two so very different yet so very similar men together is their strong characters defined by their great love for their families and complete focus on their children and grandchildren in every aspect of their lives.

In the end, it’s been a busy couple days not just in regard to the activities happening but with everything to think about as well. I return to the DR for my last 5 weeks feeling extremely blessed. Everything happens for a reason como Dios quiere.





Wednesday, June 12, 2013

School’s Out for the Summer!!

The Santa Ana crew including Daniela, me, Cristela, Milis, Tia Elena and Anita!
Wow, if I‘ve complained before about life here being go-go-go, it’s been nothing compared to these last few weeks and it just keeps getting crazier. The kids got out of school this past Friday for the summer and boy, are they ready for the break. Tomorrow (Wednesday) they all get their grades and they are super anxious to figure out if they’ve passed their classes. That, of course, affects summer plans for many, as the kids aren’t allowed to go on vacations if they haven’t passed their classes; instead they have to retake the classes. Add to that the fact that family members must ask for the kids to come on vacations (so, of course, less than half of our kids actually end up going on vacations since many of them have no family or family that is unsuitable to take care of them) and nerves are pretty high right now.

In the last couple weeks, a lot has happened. We planned and executed an outing for all 250 kids and caregivers to see the play “The Beauty in the Beast” in the National Theatre in the capital, a generous donation. Wes came and went and Milena arrived as well! Throw in a trip with Santa Ana to the batey and 23 baptisms this past Sunday and those are most of the notable events from the last couple weeks. Now prepare yourself to be photo-bombed:

Cecilia and Wislina in the theatre!!
It was an absolutely stunning show!
Santa Bernardita had a blast!

Santo Domingo also had a blast!
Mrs. Potts!
Valentina making a thank you card feautring Belle!
Carolina on her way to the batey with a backpack full of basketballs!
Belkis, Cristal, Carmencita, me, Erika and Milis!
Belkis on a bike!
Playing some b-ball!
Baptisms!
Anita getting baptized with her godmother, Mireya!
Cristela getting baptized with me as her godmother!
Milis with godmother, Tia Carmen!
Daniela, Maritza, and crew!
Me, Father Craig and Cristela!
The whole crew! (Did I mention there were 23?!?!)
Godmother and goddaughter :)
Wes from the US!
The boys on their bikes!
And all of them following each other around site!
Hermanos Belkis and Fausto!
Belkis and me!
Ran into Yocairis in the capital!
Madelon got a great pic of Lucy actually smiling and looking at the camera!

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Rick, Brianna, and Chrissy Take on the DR!


So the highlight of the last couple weeks has by far been a visit from my uncle Rick and cousins Brianna and Chrissy (“that would be the daughters of Rick and Jane, grandchildren of Barbara and the late Alphonse…” hehe, gotta love those introductions!) After all the stress and craziness of the end of the school year, prep for the summer and the anticipation that I’ll be leaving in a couple months, some quality Mages time was exactly what I needed!


Anyways, the three of them arrived to the DR last Wednesday (in the midst of a tropical storm) and were here at the home Thursday morning within less than 24 hours of their plane touching down. I was excitedly waiting for them that morning just hoping that my directions (look for a giant Presidente sign, turn right at a roadside shack, etc.) would get them here safely when I saw a car pull in and I ran out to greet them! They did a great job navigating and were here by mid-morning. So we started off by taking a tour of the grounds. We went to the school and hung out with first grade for a while. Then we went up to all of the houses and looked around there and even had the Dominican specialty of sancocho for lunch in Santa Ana. The girls also got lucky as Brianna had thought to bring some dulces to share… Plus I think my favorite part was kid after kid pulling me over to ask if the man I was with was 1) my dad or 2) my dad’s twin. I had almost forgotten how much those Mages brothers look alike and especially Rick and my dad. The kids DEFINTIELY caught onto that as well…They have good memories for sure!
Photo in front of the volunteer house!
Ditania and Brianna!
La escuela!
Chrissy and Arturo!
Milagritos!!
Rick and Milagros (he and my dad do really look a lot alike, don't they??)
First grade at their finest!
Preschool/kingergarten at nap time!
Jesus (newest addition to NPH) with Brianna!
Chrissy, Rick, and I in front of Santa Ana!
Mmmmm...Chrissy and her sancocho!
Later that afternoon, after showing them around the home, we took off for San Pedro and did a little tour there. We checked out the cemetery (apparently all of us Mages’ agree that checking out cemeteries in other countries is a great way to get some insight on the culture), happened to see a funeral procession and drove by the baseball stadium. Then, of course, we had to make a quick pit stop for ice cream before heading over to Bayahibe where their resort was. 
Artsy pic of the cemetery...most of the graves are above ground here...
Paying a visit to the 4 NPH kids that have passed on (you can't see their graves in this photo...)
Funeral procession in San Pedro headed out to the cemetery...
HELADO!
At the know-all end-all of ice cream in the DR, Bon.
View from Bayahibe...
Cangrejos (crabs!)
Rick and his Presidente beer (looking more and more like my dad by the minute, right??)
Hey paradise!

That evening we took full advantage of the resort by experiencing some fine dining at the Italian place and catching the evening show, La Pareja Ideal, plus we had to check out the bar and we got some yummy mojitos! It was a great start to the relaxing :)
Resort pool (biggest pool I've seen in my life...people were kayaking in it during the day!) 
Twilight photo...
Evening show...it was audience participation, but thank God, we missed out on that this time around. (Can't say the same for my parents when they first visited the DR...)
On Friday morning, we got up, had an amazing breakfast (make-your-own omelet style) and then spent the entire day on an excursion to Isla Saona. This island is rumored to be one of the best snorkeling spots in the DR plus has a beach that can be described no other way than a tropical paradise. We took a big catamaran out to the island and started off by going through the national park area and seeing some starfish. Then we went to an abandoned, GOREGOUS beach for awhile to do some snorkeling. For lunch, we hopped over to another beach on the island attached to the village of Mano Juan. I think our favorite part of this stop was getting to go into the school there and see the kids. Since Brianna teaches kindergarten, it was especially interesting for her and she even met a student named Brianna! The kids all sang the National Anthem for us and were happy to take a couple photos together. We finished up with some more crazy-awesome snorkeling and then headed back to the resort for an evening of Spanish food and a Michael Jackson show. Not to mention, we were all fried to a CRISP and redder than tomatoes.

Family photo!
Me with the starfish!
The water was super clear!
Brianna got caught by the trip photographer and ended up doing some unexpected modeling poses...hahaha!
Boat!
Abandoned beach!
Lobster lunch in Mano Juan!
A Dominican meal complete with rice, pork, and potato salad!
I found a friend!
The Mano Juan school!
2nd through 6th grade shouting "Minnesota!!"
Brianna and Brianna!
School bathrooms...
And Brianna found a friend...with a hula hoop...
Walking through the village!
How cute is this pup?!?
Taking a tour of town...
Snorkeling!
Ready to meet Michael Jackson!

Saturday was the last day I got to spend with them as I had to head back to NPH to be with the kids on Mother’s Day on Sunday (all the tias got the day off, so the volunteers filled in as the caregivers for the day!) We started off the morning on the beach (after finally getting some towels at the towel shack) and then switched over to the jacuzzi a little later. We also found the crepe bar and had fun watching some of those cheesy resort audience-participation activities leisurely from our beach chairs as we tried to stay in the shade as much of possible (did I mention we got super super sunburnt?!?) Around 3:00pm that afternoon, we hopped back in the car and headed back to San Pedro to drop me off and on Sunday, the crew went back to MN in order to be there for Memorial Day.
 
Have I mentioned that I live in a paradise?!?! (Although don't be fooled, I don't actually see the 'paradise' part of the island that much!) 
Jacuzzi time!
Overall, it was an awesome couple days! For me, it was a great break and it felt really good to see some of the Mages’! Also, it was once again a reminder, that I am so blessed to 1) have a family and 2) have a family that cares so much about each other. I couldn’t be happier! Thanks Rick, Brianna, and Chrissy for an awesome couple days!!!!
This was a fun photo shoot!
This was ALSO a fun photo shoot!
Que tranquilo...