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Saturday, December 1, 2012

So Thankful!



Well, these last couple weeks have been a fast-paced blur! On Wednesday, November 14th, I returned to Minnesota for a week with family and friends and to celebrate Thanksgiving! At first, there was some crazy reverse culture shock to deal with (24/7 electricity, drinking water from the tap, real mattresses, being able to let my guard down out in public, speaking only in English, driving, having anything and everything at my fingertips at Target or Walmart, etc.) But after that initial surprise, the fun began! Some highlights were picking up Michelle from college at Drake, doing the Gobble Gait in Hastings with my best friend Abby, and seeing my grandparents. Oh, plus getting Caribou/Starbucks every single day I was home. Also, friends and family were so generous with donations for the kids…I came back with all sorts of games, activities, and Christmas gifts so MUCHAS GRACIAS!! Here's some pics:

The welcome crew at the airport (plus mom!) It was so COLD! 
ABBY!!!!!!
The kids I nannied for years...it was so fun seeing them! They're growing up fast!
High school friends...I laughed SO hard this night!
Spent a Sunday with Grandma and about 30 other Mages' in New Ulm!
My newest cousin, Makayla!
Me and BONITA!!! Cousins/Cobbers for life!
Michelle seems so happy at Drake! Apparently, Iowa isn't as bad as it sounds...
Got dinner with the college roomies, Leah and Kaite!
And got lunch with cousin Stacie and Adam!
Thanksgiving dinner with the Beckers! SO much food!
The turkey hat I did the Gobble Gait in (and Maggee!)
Surprise: we celebrated Christmas early and had gifts in our stockings!
Checked out the Friends office in St. Paul...it was fun seeing photos of our kids so close to home!
Decorated the Christmas tree on Thanksgiving and Grandma and Grandpas!
And it was Grandpa's turn for the turkey hat!
On Friday, November 23rd I caught the 5:00am flight out of Minneapolis and came back to the sunny DR. It was SO fun to come back to be with the kids…it felt like my first day again when everything is new and exciting. From my girls, I got two main reactions: 1) Did you bring back Christmas lights for the tree?(When ours came out of storage completely broken, I promised that my mom had some extra that I would bring back!) and 2) You cut your hair…WHY?!?! It was so long and pretty! Haha, gotta love working with 13-year old girls!
Cristela, Erika, and me with my short hair!
My main reason for jetting off the second Thanksgiving ended was for the Quinceañeras, which took place last Saturday. This is when the girls turn 15 and officially celebrate turning into women, and in some ways, it’s the equivalent to prom back home. We had eight girls celebrating this year, three from my house (Daniela, Estrella, and Yudelkis!) We also take advantage of the event to celebrate our boys’ 18th birthdays, so this year there were five of those. The day started off with the girls all getting their hair, nails, and makeup done. Then they all met up at the nuns’ house for pictures and final prep. Mass was at 5:00pm followed by a dinner (yep, we definitely killed one of our cows to make this possible) and ceremony complete with a little choreographed waltz and the ceremonious gesture of our director putting a shoe on each girls’ foot. The girls also each received bracelets and necklaces and the boys received watches. Everyone looked like a million bucks and the dance that night was a lot of fun! I felt like such a proud mom with my 3 girls too :) I love events where they just get to be kids and enjoy!
The girls and I beforehand at the nuns' house!
The boys all waiting outside the nuns' house!

Toos, me, Avriel, and Madelon (plus Wilkin!)
Me and the nurse's baby! SO adorable!
Lucy FINALLY agreed to take a picture with me (I may or may not have bribed her with chocolate!)
The two newest girls to my house, Cristal and Milis!
My godbrother and sister, Wilson and Milis!
Our youngest, Saul, with our oldest, Debora, and Jofran too!
The cake and decorations were fantastic!
My girls! Yudelkis, Daniela, me, and Estrella!
The multipurpose center was transformed!
National Director Kieran putting Estrella's shoe on!
The partner waltz!
Each girl had a big decorative sign with their name grafitti-ed on!
Sponsorship has really been picking up lately! We’re starting a couple new programs and are getting lots of visits. On Sunday, some Italians came and spent the day with their godson, Antonio. It was a lot of fun! It was a couple too…I love it when there are good male role models on site…the boys just eat it up! Then on Thursday, a group of Canadians came to visit complete with one of Maria Luisa's godmothers...she has visited multiple times before, so it's cool to see the relationship she has established with the girls!
Antonio and his Italian godmother!
Maria Luisa's godmother with the Santa Rosa girls gathered round!
Maria Luisa and her godmother!
Monday, the high school seniors that go to the private school in town had their promoción, which is essentially a mid-year, pre-graduation type event. They all did some dances and again, just got to be kids exciting about having nearly made it through school. It was cool to be able to support some of our oldest kids!

On Thursday afternoon, I celebrated my three November birthdays in the house (Erika, Maria del Carmen, and Franchesca). We got supper in San Pedro together and then I gave them each a couple bucks to do some shopping. It was a bit of a learning experience too. I helped them figure out how to take the public guagua (bus) and the motor taxis. They also each had to figure out the math for spending their RD$100 pesos and check out themselves at the shops. This stuff might seem simple, but it’s stuff a lot of them don’t have any experience with and will certainly need to know once they leave NPH. Avriel came along too, and we had a lot of fun!
We ran into Joel!
Maria del Carmen, me, Erika, and Franchesca in front...a GREAT group of girls! 
So basically, things are trucking right along. I can’t believe it’s December already. Christmas plans are certainly in full swing! Each house has to come up with a dance and make a piñata to celebrate! Other than that, I’ve got hard-core gripe (i.e. a cold!) Apparently, it’s going around because it’s getting “cold” now (translation: highs in the 80s instead of 90s). Anyways, in the end, my trip home has made me realize how thankful I am for both my American family and Dominican one…I wouldn’t trade it for the world! 

Charina sporting my new shades!

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Almost Home!

Here's the crew!
Alrighty, I’m about T minus 24 hours from takeoff to go home for what I think will be an awesome, busy (and cold!) week! Fortunately, things have calmed down a little bit here this past week…they’re still as busy as always but certainly less stressful, gracias a Dios. Here’s a quick look at the past week!

Noche de Miedo
So this past Friday night, us volunteers put on a Scary Mystery Night for the older boys. We all got dressed up and we came up with a mystery the boys had to solve by going around to different spots on sight and solving riddles (like a twisted version of a scavenger hunt). It was a blast and we CERTAINLY got some good scares in. The night finished off in the library/abandoned house in the school where everyone watched a scary movie. I dressed up as a crazy clown, Avriel dressed up as a loca, and Madelon dressed up as the señora from the mystery story.
Joe, Madelon, Avriel, me, and Pili!

The twins!

Joe at breakfast!
The Weekend
The weekend was essentially a hodge-podge of visits and games. On Saturday morning, we had two different groups of visitors from the capital. In the afternoon, I brought some word searches over to the house (thank you Becca and Becky!) and the girls went crazy…they LOVED them…couldn’t stop doing them even for supper! We also did an impromptu dance party on the back terrace. That’s always fun! Saturday night was the ‘official start’ of the Christmas season at NPH, so we brought out the Christmas tree in the house. More decorations to come after my trip home. We also played some English games and of course, Dominoes.

Sopa de letras obsession! (Lucy, Franchesca, Erika)

Jacqueline had some fun with the markers!

Sta. Rosa impromptu photo shoot!

Dancing bachata with Daniela!

Mayelin!

Singing away!

And out comes the Christmas tree!

Here are the very-broken lights!

Yudelkis...one of the quince girls...what a cutie!

Proyecto Familiar
I did another Family Project, this time with Sulema, Maria Ines, and Agustin. Sulema was the helper in my house for my first 8 months here. She’s 17, Maria Ines is 15, and Agustin is 9….a VERY cute family. We made pizza, tried Valentina hot sauce (that was funny!) and Agustin learned how to use a fork and knife to cut food up (he may or may not have had the knife flipped upside down!)
Sulema, me, Agustin, and Maria Ines!


GOING HOME!
So tomorrow’s the day…I’m going home! Since I’ve got the teenage girls house and they don’t always behave like angels (to put it nicely), I’ve worked out a deal with them. I’m gonna come back to the DR with chocolate from my country, LOTS of chocolate. And then they and the tia are gonna tell me how they behaved. If they behaved well, the chocolate is theirs….if not, the chocolate goes to the volunteers, hehe. We’ll see how that works…fortunately, 13-year old girls are pretty motivated by chocolate. I’m so so SO excited to be going home and to see family and friends, but it is also the first time I’ll have been away from the girls this long in nearly a year. I think the longest I’ve been away has been 5 days otherwise…so this is double! I’ll be getting back next Friday, the 23rd, as 3 of my girls (and 8 girls total) are celebrating their Quinceañeras on the 24th…that has been ALL the talk lately. And then the following weekend is Confirmation (I’m one of my girls’ sponsors) and the day after Confirmation, Avriel and I take off for a week visit to our home in Haiti. And then before we know it, BAM, Christmas is here! SO much fun stuff coming up!

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Nonstop.



So these past two weeks have been STRESSFUL. I think it’s actually been my most difficult time at NPH up until now….certainly a reminder that this job is HARD. Anywho, here’s a peek at all the insanity…


Hurricane Sandy
It hit pretty hard, and it was about a solid 4 days of rain and overall dampness. The kids had a day and a half of school cancelled and were cooped up in the houses, so I certainly got in my fair share of domino games.  It was definitely the most rain and most forceful winds I have seen here. Fortunately, here at NPH we were just fine…I don’t even think that we had any trees down, and we’ve planned very well for rain with our set up (drainage system, etc.) The same can’t be said for the rest of the country. There were lots of trees down and I can barely imagine the mess with all of the gravel roads and lack of general preparedness for rain. Things were certainly flooded. I kept thinking of the barrio in Santo Domingo I visited back in spring with a medical group that is located in a valley. I remember being told that it is one of the poorest barrios in the country, because it gets washed out every year. I’m sure they were affected big time…
Our new pool!
Madelon Gets Sick
This was a wild card. Madelon went in the clinic on Saturday morning while Av and I cleaned the house to soon hear that Madelon had been admitted into the hospital for the next 24 hours because she had a bad stomach infection. SHOOT. As we all know quite well, it SUCKS being in the clinics/hospitals of this country and even more so when one’s alone, so Avriel and I worked out a plan of shifts on the spot. We were also in heavy-duty gala planning mode at this point, so luckily we were able to bring over a bunch of work that we could do while she rested. Thank goodness, Madelon made a full recovery and is up and running at 110% again!

Visitor Day-October 29th
As I’ve mentioned various times before, Visitor Days are the toughest of days here. There’s so much expectation, joy, and disappointment all at once—pretty extreme. This Visitor Day, I worked at the front gate for the first time greeting all the family members who came to visit and getting their information. It was interesting, but is also one of the toughest spots to work since there’s so many kids there just hoping that the next person to walk through the gate will be someone they know. The rest of the day I spent with my girls who didn’t get visitors. I think there were 11 of them without visits. Us girls hung out painting nails, chatting, playing Bananograms, and they helped me prepare stuff for the gala as well. This Visitor Day about half (100ish) of all of the kids got visits while half didn’t.
Photo shoot time with Erika, Esperanza, and Belkis!




There we go! Esooooo!
Esperanza and me!
Someday I'll get a photo with Lucy looking at the camera!
Bananagram time! Actually, not a very easy game when every word here can be spelt about 3 different ways according to most!
Gala, Gala, Gala
A prestigious country club in the capital agreed to help us put on a big gala at their location, so this was an event we had been planning for since the end of summer. Our main goal was to get new sponsors and donations too of course! My main role was prepping sponsorship stuff as well as helping make the ‘kid cards’ that we put at every spot on the tables. That turned out to be QUITE a chore. Essentially, we had to cut out a red rectangle, cut out a blue rectangle, glue on the blue rectangle, cut out three different pieces for the front and glue them on, cut out a piece for the back and then glue it on, and finally get the specific child to sign it FOUR HUNDRED times over. Yup. Luckily, I was able to get a lot of help from my girls and in the end, they looked great. We had just over 250 people at the gala and we got 19 new sponsors! The program went well and we all got back home here at 2:30am that night!

The room was gorgeous!
Each place setting complete with the 'kid cards' we made!
Another place setting with the flower centerpieces...that was a nice surprise (especially since we didn't have anything planned for the center of the tables!) 
Sponsorship wall!

Daniela (sponsorship coordinator), me, and Sonya (accountant) back working the tables!
One of our dance lines got to go and be a part of the program...here I am with Esperanza and Valentina.
Grupo de Amistad
Another thing that I know I’ve mentioned quite frequently is Family Project (Proyecto Familiar) where siblings get together and make a supper. In October, it was my turn to help out with the ‘Friendship Group’ or the kids from three different houses who don’t have siblings here at NPH. We made pizza, and it was a BLAST! There were 8 kids and 3 of us volunteers. A great time was had by all :)
Emaus and Pili preparing the crust!
Everyone assembling the 3 pizzas!
Enmanuel with pizza #1!
Emaus watching the pizza cook, haha!
Juan Carlos and me!
Joe and I dancing a little impromptu bachata...the kids are always shocked to figure out that us foreigners can hold our own on the dance floor!
Time to eat!
Gosh, teenage boys can eat a lot!
The whole crew!
Sponsorship Murals
And lastly, a project I’ve been working on for awhile was making some new sponsorship boards for the visitor houses on site and I finally got that done! We decided to advertise sponsorship by dressing up the kids in costumes that reflect what they want to be when they grow up and asking for help making their ‘dreams come true’….I’d say it turned out pretty well!


Well, I think that’s about it for this novel. The only other thing of note is that I go home in 8 days….I can’t wait!!!! So excited for a little bit of cold, a cup of Caribou coffee, and seeing loved ones!


P.S. I’ve had a few questions about the puppies….well, they spent about a week leaving right outside the front gate before Kieran realized that was the start of a zoo…so the puppies got sent away :( But hopefully they’re alright!

P.P.S. I got SOOO lucky this week! I accidentally spilled a cup of water on my laptop (I didn’t want to break the glass cup apparently, so I let it fall on the laptop instead of the ground) and my laptop refused to turn on for a full 24 hours. I was getting a little worried, because a new laptop isn’t exactly in my $50/month-paycheck budget. Well, one day and a huge bag of rice later (fortunately, there’s so shortage of that in this country) it turns on with only a small water stain on the screen THANK GOD!!! 

Ivelisse got a visit from some sponsors!
Avriel and I dressed embarrassingly alike (down to the shoes) on our free weekend...unplanned!
Peaceful sunset in the park!
One of those little surprises that makes it all worth it at the end of the day :) I should borrow my camera out to the girls more often, jaja...